This is a guidebook to help children who:

• bully or take revenge on others for the pain they have felt themselves
• have become very defensive because something too painful has happened to them
• have hardened their hearts because they have: been too hurt in love; met with too much harshness; witnessed parental violence; been repeatedly hit; been shamed or humiliated
• had too many experiences of not being responded to
• think they have lost their parent's love to someone else and have hardened their heart.